In my private practice, I evaluate and treat patients with a variety of conditions ranging from ADHD to depression to dementia, and I find that there are so many un-asked questions, but frequently as doctors, we don’t know what questions you have. Today we have the fortune of talking to an individual who has walked the journey of being a caregiver for a loved one who has been diagnosed with Dementia. Today we’re going to answer some of the questions that you may have about dementia.

 

 Dementia is a cruel disease that doesn’t just impact the one diagnosed—it impacts the whole family. When a loved one is diagnosed with dementia, caregivers are often filled with fear, concern, and dread. Caregivers often don’t know what questions to ask because the experience is so new. In today’s post, I’m continuing an interview with a caregiver whose wife was diagnosed with dementia, about the necessity of obtaining additional support.

 

If you missed part 1, when we discussed signs and symptoms that led up to a diagnosis, you can find it here: http://wp.me/p3p04I-Zx

If you missed part 2, when we discussed the most difficult aspect of his experience dealing with her dementia and his advice for others in a similar situation, you can find it here: http://wp.me/p3p04I-Zt

 

DrB: “Tell me if you will, as a caregiver who has had to walk this valley, this journey of caring for someone with dementia, what advice would you have for someone who is just now starting their journey?”

Caregiver: “The most helpful thing for me was to join a support group for dementia patients and families. It’s a small group of 8-12 people that meets periodically, all of whom have spouses who have a form of dementia. The meetings are sharing their experiences, their feelings, a lot of laughter, and frequently tears. But you come away with the feeling that you are not alone.

“I think that that is perhaps the most important thing to realize that as you go through this, you tend to become rather isolated because your friends find that you as a couple are in a different situation. Many times they don’t continue the same type of relationship with you that you had before and so you can very easily become isolated.

“I have found now that some of my closest friends come from this group of caregivers.”

DrB: “Because they can relate.”

Caregiver: “Exactly.”

DrB: “So for someone just starting this journey, it might be a frightening consideration—the thought of joining a support group for caregivers of loved ones with dementia—but perhaps one of the most helpful things they can do.”

Caregiver: “Yes. When a new member comes into the group, you can sense they are not sure if they should be there or not, because it’s an admission that something is changing in their life.”

DrB: “Yes. Do you think denial plays a role in the wondering if they belong?”

Caregiver: “It could be denial. It could be a hope that this is not permanent. “

DrB: “Fear?”

Caregiver: “It could be fear. It could be all of those things.”

DrB: “But if they come back?”

Caregiver: “Usually if they come back they find very quickly that these are other people who have gone through exactly the same thing as they are.”

DrB: “So then there is a camaraderie there.”

Caregiver: “There most definitely is, yes.”

DrB: “Thank you for sharing from your experience. I’m sure your experiences will give others the sense that you have been there and perhaps lend them some courage.”

Let me encourage you today that if you are in the early stages of finding out that a loved one has dementia, do what you can to educate yourself and get more information, and get the support you need to help you weather this journey.

For more information on how to help your loved one with dementia and to get additional tips, go to my website, http://www.DrMichelleBengtson.com

 

 

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In this interview with a caregiver husband of a wife diagnosed with dementia, he shares advice for someone just starting their journey. For him, the most important thing he did was join a support group for dementia patients and their families. In the meetings, attendees share their feelings, experiences, laughter and tears. But when you leave, you feel as if you are not alone.

 

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