As I sit in my office, so much confusion, so much sadness, so much despair walks in with each patient every day.
From the mother whose child keeps getting in trouble at school, to the husband whose wife struggles to remain sober, to the daughter or spouse watching as one’s memories dwindle thanks to Alzheimer’s disease.
I can see it in their eyes. They are weary and searching. They crave normalcy and stability. They long for answers, direction, and comfort. Every situation feels like an emergency, but appointments with specialists feel like they take an eternity.
“Just tell me it will be ok.”
“Comfort me and confirm that we will survive this.”
“Tell us what to do and where to go for the help we don’t even know we need.”
Each patient is different, but at the same time, each is the same: in search of answers, in desperate need of hope. They look to me.
Never did I conceive that I would make my living by telling people bad news: “Your son has autism.” “Your father has dementia.” “Your memory may not improve after your head injury.” And yet, I never received one class, not one lecture on how to give feedback. I can rely only on the results in front of me and the leading of the Holy Spirit for how to direct and guide them while providing hope.
“Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” (Proverbs 16:24)
My in-box is filled daily with needs. That’s His call on my life. Being called to help others emotionally and spiritually can be draining. To be a good therapist, counselor, or coach requires empathy and compassion while not absorbing others’ pain.
We also can’t give what we do not have. If we are weary, we are vulnerable. At times we have to shield ourselves and fill up by the power of His spirit. Self-care is non-negotiable. His care is essential.
My goal for every patient who walks through my doors is that they would experience His peace and His hope, whether they know where it comes from or not.
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)
My desire is that they would come face to face with the light of the world; an experience with THE healer who not only longs to heal their situation, but heal their need for eternity with salvation.
“I am the LORD who heals you.” (Exodus 15:26)
Lord, you are NOT the author of confusion, sadness or despair. You came so that we might have abundant life. You came to give us peace despite our situations and circumstances. I pray that as each person leaves my office, they might take a bit of Your peace with them. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Because of Him, #PeacePrevails!
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A short brief about Hope Prevails.
Insights from a Doctor’s Personal Journey through Depression
Dr. Michelle Bengtson
Speaking from personal and professional experience, a neuropsychologist unpacks what depression is, shows how it affects us spiritually, and offers hope for living the abundant life.
Neuropsychologist Offers Hope to Those Struggling with Depression
-By 2020, depression will be our greatest epidemic worldwide
- An estimated 350 million people worldwide suffer from some form of depression
- As with the bestselling My Stroke of Insight, the author experienced the same condition she treats
- Helpful features include personal stories, biblical truths, prayers, and music recommendations
In Hope Prevails, Dr. Bengtson writes with deep compassion and empathy, blending her extensive training and faith, to offer readers a hope that is grounded in God’s love and grace. She helps readers understand what depression is, how it affects them spiritually, and what, by God’s grace, it cannot do. The result is a treatment plan that addresses the whole person—not just chemical imbalances in the brain.
For those who struggle with depression and those that want to help them, Hope Prevails offers real hope for the future.
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