Will you be mine? That’s not only a question we might ask another this time of year for Valentine’s Day, but I believe is also the fundamental question Jesus asks each of us. Everything Jesus did was relational.
Do you love a good “love story?” In the Gospels, in the book of John, we are told of Jesus’s travels from Judea into Galilee. John 4:4 tells us that Jesus had to pass through Samaria. I think He had to go through Samaria in order to show one woman just how much He loved her.
Tired from his long journey, Jesus took rest alone at the well where he encountered the Samarian woman. Jesus asked her for a drink, which took her by surprise because it was not customary at that time for Jews to associate with Samaritans.
He explained that if this young woman knew with whom she was speaking, rather than he asking her for a drink, she would be asking to drink of his living water.
She was perplexed and wondered what made this man so special, and how he would offer her a drink when he had nothing to use to fetch the living water to which he referred.
rather than focusing on the relatively unimportant details of her questions.
Those who drink from the well will continue to thirst, but those who drink of His living water will not only never thirst again but that which Jesus offers will become within all who drink a well of water springing up to eternal life.
just as He did with the woman at the well. He guides us in truth to come to a more complete revelation of Him. When he told the woman to bring her husband to the well, he knew that not only did she tell the truth that she didn’t have a husband, but he also knew that she had had five prior husbands and was currently in a relationship with a man who wasn’t her husband.
If their conversation hadn’t yet sparked her interest, this surely did because he told her things about her self she had not revealed: she then believed he was a prophet. In their conversation, she told Jesus she was watching for the Messiah to come, Jesus explained to her that He was the Messiah.
Putting myself in this woman’s place, her encounter with Jesus must’ve been life altering. First, a Jewish man willingly acknowledged and conversed with her against all societal norms. Then he spoke to her about her areas of sin – not in a condemning or shaming way, but out of love and honesty. He exuded patience with her when she didn’t initially understand that He was trying to tell her who He was and what He had to offer her. He was the only man who didn’t condemn her because of her sin, and remained with her until she understood the magnitude of this encounter.
This was the greatest show of love this five-time divorced woman had ever received. And yet, as she went into the city and told others of her encounter with Jesus and all He knew about her, she questioned: “This is not the Christ is it?”
How often do we do the same thing? How often are we left alone, discarded, and misunderstood by friends, family, co-workers or society, accepted only by Jesus in our darkest shame. And yet as time goes by, we forget the magnitude of his acceptance and forgiveness?
How often do we look for confirmation from others that what we’ve encountered is real and reliable, rather than trusting in the Creator of our encounter?
In this season when the world focuses on love, may we focus on the One who loves perfectly, and then give of that well to others.
Replay of Free Webinar – 10 Tips to Beat the Blues
Do you or a loved one suffer from the blues?
I recently hosted a Free Educational Webinar with 10 practical tips to offer help and hope to beat the blues. I had so much feedback of lives that were touched, I decided to offer a Replay of the Webinar so that others could also be encouraged.
Here’s what some attendees have had to say:
“Your personal examples made you believable and relatable. It was practical and excellent advice and I know people were helped and encouraged.” – Cindy
“All of your hard work showed in the presentation. Your voice is so compelling with a touch of authority, yet your sweet personality came through when you called out the names of those who had questions or comments. Each tip is filled with wisdom and motivation.” – Carolyn
“What a mighty work God has done and your story is a testimony for anyone being stirred to spread her wings but feels the downward pull of an enemy at risk, an enemy defeated!” – Margie
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