How to Find Hope and Healing through a Child’s Addiction – Episode 323

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Episode Summary:

In this week’s episode, I’m talking with Dawn Ward, who shares her painful story of being a mother to two sons who have struggled with addiction. Dawn shares how God has used those wounds, healed them, and given her purpose in her pain to encourage us that God never wastes our pain.

Quotables from the episode:

  • I was a Christian and I thought that if I took my children church and taught them the Bible and did all the things according to God’s word then those evil elements of the world would somehow not get to our family, but that didn’t prove to be true.
  • When I tried to outrun old wounds from my childhood, these old pains and things that had hurt me so much came back to haunt me when my son became involved with the wrong friends and the wrong movies and troublesome behaviors.
  • Both of my sons struggled with addiction and I faced intense guilt and self-blame and shame because at that point I thought it was my fault.
  • I remember crying out to God, “I thought that I was doing better in my relationship with you. I thought I had more faith. I thought I trusted you. And now I’m just in a big pool of my own tears.” And that is so often what happens when we hear messages in childhood that are not always based in truth.
  • Earlier in my life, in my career, my faith, or things that God was tugging at my heart to do, I was reluctant to step out and be bold and do those things because I didn’t feel adequate. I didn’t feel like I would be able to do it. And I look back on opportunities that God put in front of me, and I told myself I couldn’t do them.
  • There came a breaking point where I realized I have to figure this out, because if I don’t figure out how God sees me and the things that he’s given me responsibility for and that he trusts me to be a wife and to be a mother, but yet I’m not trusting myself to do it with his help.
  • I needed to trust God to begin to reveal lies and the thought patterns that were holding me back and affecting all my relationships.
  • One day my husband confronted me and said, “You are going to worry yourself to death.” And I told him he had permission to write that on my tombstone, “She worried herself to death.” But I heard the Lord say to me, “No, it’s going to say she trusted God.” That was an aha moment for me when I realized that every choice that I made moving forward, I needed to ask, “Do I trust you, Lord? Even though this doesn’t make sense. Even though I can’t understand why it’s going this way.”
  • So, I wrote a book hoping maybe other moms wouldn’t have to go through as much pain and all of the hard lessons I had to go through. It’s really about getting our relationship back with the Lord and having our faith in him that can withstand these storms and helping us to trust him in the process of those difficult and painful things that we have no control over.
  • That’s the same thing with us with these wounds. If we don’t allow God to heal them the way that he wants to heal them.
  • Most of us wouldn’t sign up for half the stuff that we end up having to go through in our life. But the beautiful thing is that when we turn it over to God and we trust God through it, he can bring something beautiful out of those painful wounds.
  • Another benefit that comes from that is our relationship with our children and our loved ones, whether they’re in a good place or not, it becomes healthier just because we become healthier and stronger and we’re healing.
  • I look back and sometimes truthfully wish I didn’t have to bear this trial, or that my children didn’t have to bear their trial. But I can see that God has cultivated trust and faith and hope through his grace into my life. And I’m so grateful for that because I don’t think I could have really healed from some of the things I went through as a child without him working through the process of this healing with me as an adult.
  • God is not finished writing your story, or your child’s story. He loves you very much. If we can imagine how much we love our child and to imagine that God loves them that much more, and he loves us too. When we look at our God and what he is capable of and realize that his eye is on that one little lost sheep that’s wandering, that gives us hope.

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When your child battles addiction, it’s easy to feel helpless and alone. Dawn Ward shares how God met her in the heartbreak—and brought healing and purpose through the pain. Tune in! Share on X Addiction impacts more than one life—it affects the whole family. Hear how one mother found hope, healing, and a deeper faith while loving her children through addiction. Tune in! Share on X

 

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About Dawn Ward:

Dawn Ward, authorDawn Ward is a speaker, writer, and biblical life coach. She is the founder of The Faith to Flourish, a ministry equipping women to live transformed lives through inspiring teaching, mentoring, and biblical resources. Dawn also offers support and encouragement to women with addicted loved ones. She is married to Steve and mom to three adult children. Her book, From Guilt to Grace: Hope and Healing for Christian Moms of Addicted Children is scheduled for release in September 2024.

 

 

 

When your child is battling addiction, it can feel like your world is falling apart. In this honest, hope-filled conversation, a mother shares how God brought healing, restored her faith, and gave her strength to keep going—even in the hardest moments. If you need a dose of hope or know someone struggling, tune in!

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