This wasn’t the first major storm I’d faced, and it wouldn’t be the last. Jesus warned we’d face trials. But He also gave us hope. That’s what I clung to.
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).
The storm didn’t end, but I learned about trusting God in the storm and trusting Him to be my peace in the storm. Are you facing a storm? Our attitude in the midst of the storm impacts the outcome. Read more for encouragement to trust God to see you through.
“Help….”
It was all I could pray, and just a whispered prayer at that.
My life and my soul were in the middle of a storm. Tears obscured my vision as I tried to navigate the raging waters that circled my heart. I wanted God to take the helm, to navigate the path, to take me safely to harbor. I wanted him to part the waters so I could walk through. I wanted to be safe on dry ground again, yet right now I was facing swells that threatened to capsize my life.
There were no eloquent words to pray. Aside from a faintly whispered, “Help…” my tears were my prayer. Every time I tried to catch my breath, I was pulled under again, choking on another wave. All my strength was spent trying to get to the surface, to orient myself before being drug down again.
Oh, how I hated the storm if I was being honest. I was tired, and I was tired of the storm. But now was no time to give up. That’s what the enemy wanted. He’d been trying to discourage and defeat me for years. I’d come this far. I’d fought hard, I wasn’t going to give up now.
This wasn’t the first major storm I’d faced, and I was certain it wouldn’t be the last. Jesus warned us we would face trials, but He also gave us hope. It was that hope I chose to cling to.
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33)
While the storm didn’t end, the angst relented somewhat as I remembered that He came to be my peace in the midst of the storm.
I thought of the night that Jesus went out on the lake in the storm. All His disciples became distraught by the force of the storm while Jesus slept through it all. Yet what an example that is to us: Jesus could sleep through the storm because He knew who his father was and that His father could be trusted to keep His promises and to care for His children.
Storms have the potential to shape us in several different ways depending on how we react to them:
1. Sometimes storms destroy us.
When we lose perspective, when we forget who calms the storm, when we give up, we allow the storm to destroy us.
2. Sometimes storms define us.
When we forget God’s promise that he works all things together for our good, and we take on the victim mentality, and wallow in self-pity, rather than looking at our storm as an opportunity for God to show His faithfulness. In times like this, we can allow the storm to define us and can become stuck in the wake of the storm even long after the storm has passed.
In situations like this, I’d have to agree with Danny Gokey who said, “A victim is someone who complains when bad things happen. A survivor is someone who takes those bad things & makes something good out of it.” We can trust God despite our feelings.
3. Sometimes storms strengthen us.
When we hold onto God as our anchor in the storm, trusting in His sovereignty, believing that He finishes what He starts, and holding onto his promise that trials produce the testing of our faith which produces perseverance, we allow the storms to strengthen us.
God will see you through
If our eyes are on the storm we will wonder if he still loves us, but if our eyes are on the cross, we will know he always has and always will. He promised His peace-the very peace that allowed Him to sleep through the storm because He knew who He was and whose He was.
Our attitude during the storm directly impacts the outcome, even if only the impact on our heart. “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7). It is when we make the choice to not worry, but instead, pray about our needs and be thankful for all God has done that we will then experience His peace even in the midst of the storm. God will see you through.
It was in realizing that, that my prayers shifted from a feeble, “Help” to “I praise you. Lord, through it all, I’m still going to praise you. Your ways are not my ways, yet I choose to trust you, even though I cannot see a way out. Thank you for keeping me safe in the midst of the storm. Teach me, show me, guide me. Through it all, I will still praise you.”
Are you going through a storm? Will you trust God in the storm, and thank Him for all He has done for you while you wait for the storm to end?
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My husband and I are trying to be patient and wait for God’s timing in a certain situation. Some days we have more patience than other days. We are trusting God and knowing His plan is best. 🙂
Storms can destroy us that’s for sure, it’s good to know Jesus is in the boat with us.
Oh the storms of life can knock us overboard! I went through a storm about 2 years ago. When I was in the eye of it, I saw God the most. What the enemy meant to hurt and destroy me, God used for setting me free and ministering to others.
I’ve been closer to God during my 2 year battle with fallopian tube cancer than any other time in my 55 yrs of life. He has given me many blessings during this time. He has never left my side and I’m so grateful to be a child of God, who is my Rock. Thank you Jesus!
I recently described my current storm as torture. I said to a friend is felt like waterboarding torture. I know that’s a very graphic description, but for me he describes the torturous feelings I am experiencing.
Thank you for your insight and guidance! The last two paragraphs will remain n my heart forever! Beautifully written. God Bless you and keep you safe. ?
Thanks so much much for this reminder. We must keep our eyes on Jesus, even in the midst of storms. Blessings to you!
Michelle, I like, “If our eyes are on the storm we will wonder if he still loves us, but if our eyes are on the cross, we will know he always has and always will.” The cross has the last word on love.
I have chosen many times over my lifetime to trust God in the storms that come. Now I will admit I spent a few days stewing and trying to figure a way out before I finally realized and asked myself ‘What are you doing?’ The Lord said He would be with us even in the storms and He will work all things out for good for those who love Him. Well, what you have written here is an AWESOME reminder because those storms come so often and I truly want my response to be Holy and Honoring to the Lord so YES, a resounding YES, I WILL trust my Father in the storms of life. Thank you for always bringing the Lord and His Word before us and showing us the way to TRUTH so that we are NOT deceived by the enemy. I love you Michelle!! You are a blessing to me and to many others!!!
This is so beautiful. It’s one of my favorite images of Jesus— storm raging around him, his boat being tossed by he waves, but his face is calm. He is steadfast in the storm, and when I cling to him, I will not be moved.
Right now I’m in a lull between storms for which I am profoundly grateful as we tend to always have major storms of some kind in our family. So I’m basking in the calm for now, thanking him for the time to restore my spirit before the next one comes.
I love these truths about storms in our lives and God’s faithfulness.
“Aside from a faintly whispered, “Help…” my tears were my prayer.” I’ve been the woman in this place many times. Thank you for the beautiful words of encouragement, Michelle.
Peace and grace,
Tammy
Keeping our eyes on the cross is really the key to hope in the storms! So beautiful, so true! Thank you for so much encoragement!
There was a time I went through a storm and I was taken down. I allowed the enemy to defeat me with lies and with a predisposed depression that had not been treated, the combination was almost deadly. I survived. I finally came out of that darkness. Now, I’ve been in another storm for quite some time but in this go around I’ve been praising Him!! Realizing that I’ve been strengthened through and God has moved, weaving interwoven blessings in the midst of the storm. This is a message that so many people need and Michelle you’ve really shared it with heart, it comes through beautifully in your words!! #teaandword
Praise God that He is in control, even when we, in fear, tend to ebb and flow. In the midst of my current storm I am trusting Him to bring about a beautiful miracle and outcome!
In the storm of life, God is my strength my refuge. I will not give up for He is my hope . He will make all things beautiful in His time. Thank you for this encouragement .