Are you ever caught by surprise by the events of life? Do you ever wake up and wonder how you got there? How has time passed so quickly? That’s where I found myself.

People warned me it would happen:
“They grow up quickly,” they cautioned.
“Before you know it, they’ll be graduating,” others warned.

Little did I know how true those statements were.
How I wish I could have slowed down the ticking of the clock and memorized more of the moments.

Eighteen years ago I had no idea just how much it was possible for my heart to grow and expand to hold more love for another human being than I already did. I had no idea how much I could be so proud of another person. I had no clue how much my heart would break when another’s heart broke.

I had no idea how fast time would pass. I could not conceive of how I could have such bittersweet feelings at one time: sadness for the end of a season and excitement for the start of another.

I had no clue how my heart would swell at seeing my baby boy turn into a responsible, young man of God, seemingly over night.

This lifetime education has taught me several things that it would behoove you to remember:

  • God has good plans for you, Son. “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11)
  • Keep your eyes on Him and He will direct your path. “We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.” (Proverbs 16:9)
  • Seek Him first and all other things will be added unto you. “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33)
  • Worrying never serves us well. Refuse to worry and you’ll keep God’s peace. “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7)
  • You may not always be accepted by man, but God always accepts you and that’s all that matters. “What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31)
  • Nothing can separate you from God’s love (or mine). “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow–not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.” (Romans 8:38)


As my son became a graduate, I wondered how time had passed so quickly. One season ended as another began. As I reflected on the education of a lifetime, I focused on 6 important lessons from God’s word for the graduate to remember.


On this graduation day, I realize just how far we’ve both come, how much I’ve grown, and how much we’ve both learned. I feel like, in some respects, we’re both graduating today. Always know how proud I am of you! Love, your biggest cheerleader, Mom.

Because of Him,




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Are you ever caught by surprise by the events of life? I woke up and wondered how time had passed so quickly. My son became a graduate. As I thought about things a lifetime of education taught me, I focused on these 6 important lessons and truths from God’s word.